The Cost and Value of Kindness

Mark Twain said, “Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” How powerful is that?  How can something we inherently have be so difficult to actually give?  It’s free!  While that may be true in terms of dollars, kindness has a value.  It cannot be purchased, measured or weighed.  Its explicit behavior shapes and marks our character.  It inspires our disposition and transcends words.  It’s an action.  It’s intentional. It’s a choice. Have you ever been the recipient of a random act of kindness?  It feels as if your heart is smiling.  You tell…

Intuitive vs Intrusive

Many people feel they have information that is imperative to you.  They believe their keen insight will absolutely transform your life.  They sincerely want to help you, whether you want their help or not.  What is it in this season that allows everyone to believe that you need to hear their opinion?  Even if you have not solicited their advice, they give it to you.  They post it.  They tweet it.  They video or photograph it.   Far too often they do not have all of the facts but they weigh in anyway.  Social media has created a platform for people…